{"id":118064,"date":"2019-04-17T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-04-17T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/?p=118064"},"modified":"2019-12-26T15:15:24","modified_gmt":"2019-12-26T22:15:24","slug":"doing-nothing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/doing-nothing\/","title":{"rendered":"The Essential Practice of Doing Nothing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all have different words for doing nothing. Some of us putter, potter or tinker. And then there is the Italian, <a href=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/how-to-cultivate-dolce-far-niente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Dolce Far Niente&#8221;<\/a> &#8211; the sweetness of doing nothing.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-118065 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/donothing.jpg\" alt=\"I feel like doing nothing today\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/donothing.jpg 600w, https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/donothing-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/donothing-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I recently became a proud member of the Do Nothing Club. Of course, this isn&#8217;t an actual club. I&#8217;m an introvert and don&#8217;t join or start clubs, but I do like the idea of doing nothing with you &#8230; together but alone.<\/p>\n<p>After posting <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BwS8_0WFmGz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">the picture above<\/a>, some people didn&#8217;t understand my desire to do nothing. They assumed do nothing meant do nothing all the time.<\/p>\n<h2>Doing nothing gives us the energy to do something.<\/h2>\n<p>The thought of doing nothing can be scary. It was for me.<\/p>\n<p>When I was focused on doing it all, I rarely took time to do nothing. I ran at an unsustainable pace, multi-tasking my way through the day, and enjoying or being present for very little of it.<\/p>\n<p>Because I measured my worth by what I accomplished, doing nothing was a luxury I could not afford.<\/p>\n<p>I learned my lesson though, <a href=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/slow-inflow\/\">slowed down<\/a> and began to embrace &#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>The Essential Practice of Doing Nothing<\/h2>\n<p>Now I do more nothing. Not all nothing, but more nothing. We have to stop assuming never, aways, none or all. There is so much in between.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s how to implement the essential practice of doing nothing into your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Schedule it.<\/strong> Put (at least) a tiny block of &#8220;do nothing&#8221; on your calendar every single day. You don&#8217;t have to determine how you&#8217;ll spend your do nothing time in advance. This &#8220;do nothing&#8221; time will look different for everyone. Read a book, take a bath, stare at the stars, or simply rest. Do what helps you refuel and recover.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Say goodbye to guilt.<\/strong> You aren&#8217;t choosing to do nothing because you are lazy, but because it&#8217;s essential to your health and happiness. You are choosing to do nothing because you are not a robot and because you&#8217;ve done enough already.<\/p>\n<p>If we want to have energy to show up for the things that matter to us, we need guilt-free common sense to rest in between.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Recognize the difference between nothing and numbing.<\/strong> Escaping your busy life with substances and activities that help you numb out does the opposite of intentionally doing nothing. It drags you down and continues to deplete you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Do the math.<\/strong> If you are thinking, I don&#8217;t have time to do nothing, remind yourself that you&#8217;ll spend less time doing other things if you approach them with ease and clarity. You can&#8217;t do that when you are worn out. Good work doesn\u2019t come from someone who is overworked.<\/p>\n<p>By taking time to do nothing, you&#8217;ll be more present for the people you love and more engaged in work you care about.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Change your measuring system.<\/strong> Measure less by what\u2019s on your calendar and more by what\u2019s on your heart.<\/p>\n<h2>Do Nothing Club<\/h2>\n<p>Do you want to join my club? &#x1f60d;<\/p>\n<p>There are no fees, meetings or obligations.<\/p>\n<p>All you have to do to join is schedule some glorious nothing on your calendar.<\/p>\n<p>Who\u2019s in?<\/p>\n<p><em>xo,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Courtney<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have different words for doing nothing. Some of us putter, potter or tinker. And then there is the Italian, &#8220;Dolce Far Niente&#8221; &#8211; the sweetness of doing nothing. 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