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Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky<\/span><\/a> is one of my favorite happiness researchers. Her writings helped me understand the science of happiness, and how to choose happiness in my daily life. It\u2019s worth noting that Dr. Lyubomirsky is a distinguished researcher, professor, and author who has been studying happiness for over 30-years.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dr. Lyubomirsky argues that \u201c<\/span>happiness takes work<\/span><\/a>.\u201d Happiness is a habit that you can build, just like exercising or eating whole foods. Choosing happiness is something you can do for yourself, and for the people around you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, building a happiness habit doesn\u2019t mean you should ignore negative emotions or your mental health. This article isn\u2019t about embracing toxic positivity. It\u2019s meant to serve as an overview of the actions and activities that are in your control.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Is happiness really a choice?<\/h2>\n

In a recent interview on \u201c<\/span>The Psychology Podcast<\/span><\/a>,\u201d Dr. Lyubomirsky discussed three types of influences on happiness. The influences matter because they are all connected within individuals.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Genetics and personality<\/b>. It\u2019s important to state that you aren\u2019t fated to be at a certain level of happiness because of your genetics or personality. You can make habit changes that will increase your positive emotions and overall well-being.\u00a0 <\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Life circumstances<\/b>. Our life circumstances matter. For example, living in a war zone or being in an abusive relationship will have a negative impact on your happiness. On the other hand, if your basic needs are met and you live in a safe community, you will likely be happier.<\/li>\n
  3. Daily life<\/b>. You can take actions in your daily life that will foster positive emotions like joy, awe, gratitude, curiosity, and more.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    15 Tips for Choosing happiness<\/b><\/h2>\n

    Before I share tips to<\/span> become happier<\/span><\/a>, let\u2019s define the concept.<\/span> Ed Dieiner<\/span><\/a>, a happiness researcher and professor, defines happiness as being happy in your life and being happy with your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Being happy in your life means you experience positive emotions like joy, tranquility, curiosity, pride, and more. Being happy with your life is about life satisfaction. You feel like your life is good and that you\u2019re progressing toward your goals.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Below you\u2019ll find 15 tips to help you choose happiness. Pick a few activities that align with your interests, personality, values, and culture. Some of the tips might not interest you, and that\u2019s okay! We\u2019re all different.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Remember to have fun, experiment, and to enjoy the journey!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #1 \u2013 Be social.<\/h3>\n

    Studies suggest that people are happier when they are<\/span> interacting with others<\/span><\/a> and when they are more socially engaged. This could be with your pet, one person, or many people. Choose ways to connect that suit your interests, personality, and values.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #2 \u2013 Talk to a stranger.<\/h3>\n

    Dr. Lauri Santos is a happiness researcher, professor, and the host of a popular podcast called \u201c<\/span>The Happiness Lab<\/span><\/a>.\u201d On her podcast, she\u2019s talked about how simple studies have shown that you can boost your happiness by talking to strangers. You can chat with a barista at your favorite cafe or with someone during your daily community. Dr. Santos said, \u201c… those quick moments of social connection, even with a stranger, can boost your positive mood.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #3 \u2013 Engage in deep conversations.<\/h3>\n

    As you engage deep in conversations, try to talk less, listen more, and ask questions. For example, I recently purchased<\/span> Esther Perel\u2019s<\/span><\/a> new game \u2013 \u201c<\/span>Where Should We Begin<\/span><\/a>.\u201d It\u2019s a game that facilitates listening and storytelling. Thanks to this game, I\u2019ve learned new things about my husband and mom.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #4 \u2013 Incorporate acts of kindness into your weekly routine.<\/h3>\n

    Studies<\/span><\/a> suggest that incorporating acts of kindness into your weekly routine can boost your well-being. For example, you could send a loved one flowers, make breakfast for your partner, or write a thank you note to a friend or family member. Looking for more ideas? Read “<\/span>Random Acts of Kindness: List of 99+ Ideas & Examples<\/span><\/a>.”<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #5 \u2013 Express gratitude.<\/h3>\n

    Writing down 3-5 things that you are grateful for at the end of the day can boost your happiness. And, that can happen in as little as two-weeks! You can also<\/span> express gratitude<\/span><\/a> via handwritten letters, sending a text message, and you can share what you are grateful for on social media.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #6 \u2013 Move your body.<\/h3>\n

    Research suggests that regular exercise can improve your mental health and well-being. Exercising with a friend can boost your well-being, too. For example, whenever I\u2019m feeling sad, I go for a walk with my husband or lift weights. A quick 20 to 30 minute workout gives me a bump in endorphins that will last for a few hours!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #7 \u2013 Spend your money on small pleasures.<\/h3>\n

    The research on<\/span> how money impacts happiness<\/span><\/a> is fascinating. For example, spending money on small experiences like a weekly lunch date with a friend or a regular massage will offer you more joy than new material items like a television or car.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #8 \u2013 Give compliments.<\/b><\/h3>\n

    Turn your focus outward and offer compliments freely. For example, tell the cashier at the grocery store how much you appreciate their assistance, write a helpful review of your favorite podcast or book, or thank your coworkers for their hard work on a project.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #9 \u2013 Stop ruminating.<\/h3>\n

    Ruminating means you are engaged in circular thinking. This is something I do frequently, and it isn\u2019t good for my happiness or mental health. I stop the rumination cycle by journaling about my worries, talking with a friend, and by thinking of creative ways I can solve a problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #10 \u2013 Choose sleep.<\/h3>\n

    Studies repeatedly show that sleep deprivation isn\u2019t good for your physical or emotional health. For example, when I\u2019m sleep deprived all of my tasks are more difficult, and I tend to be grumpy. Over the years, I\u2019ve learned to prioritize<\/span> good sleep hygiene<\/span><\/a>. It\u2019s an easy way to make my day more joyful and productive.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #11 \u2013 Spend money on others.<\/h3>\n

    Research<\/span><\/a> by Elizabeth Dunn and her colleagues suggests \u201cthat people who spend money on others report more happiness.\u201d You can do this by making charitable donations or by taking a co-worker to lunch. The important takeaway: spend your money in ways that strengthen your connections with others.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #12 \u2013 Choose activities that foster a state of flow.<\/b><\/h3>\n

    Have you ever become so immersed in an activity that you forget about time and yourself? If yes, you have experienced a<\/span> state of flow<\/span><\/a>. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi\u2014a researcher and writer who popularized this concept\u2014called flow \u201cthe secret to happiness.\u201d Try to find an activity that helps you experience this state. For instance, I experience flow when I\u2019m writing, taking photos, or trying to learn a new language.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #13 \u2013 Adopt a dog.<\/h3>\n

    Animal companions can boost your health and happiness. For example,<\/span> Dr. Lauri Santos<\/span><\/a> talked about dogs in this context. Dogs can make people happier because they change a person\u2019s behavior. If you have a dog, you\u2019ll get outside to exercise more, be more socially connected, and experience the present moment more often, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #14 \u2013 Practice loving-kindness meditation.<\/h3>\n

    Greater Good in Action<\/span><\/a> describes \u201cpracticing kindness as one of the most direct routes to happiness.\u201d Research suggests that kind people tend to be happier in their relationships, and with the overall trajectory of their lives. A simple way to cultivate kindness in your life is by starting a<\/span> Loving-Kindness Meditation<\/span><\/a> practice. It involves \u201csending goodwill, kindness, and warmth towards others by silently repeating a series of mantras.\u201d<\/span> Learn more<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tip #15 \u2013 Savor your experiences.<\/h3>\n

    Instead of thinking about what\u2019s next, try to live in the present moment. For example, instead of making to-do lists in my head during dinner, I engage in deep conversations with my husband. I also do my best to eat slowly. This makes my meal and conversation more enjoyable because I\u2019m able to savor the experience.<\/span><\/p>\n

    My favorite quotes about choosing happiness…<\/h2>\n

    If I need a little encouragement to choose happiness, I open my notebook and read my favorite happiness quotes:<\/span><\/p>\n

    1.) \u201cIf you look at the positive psychology literature, one of the hugest effects on our own happiness is our social connection \u2026 Social relationships and strong social relationships are necessary for happiness. They\u2019re not sufficient for happiness, but you can\u2019t find happy people that don\u2019t have them.\u201d \u2014 Dr. Laurie Santos<\/span><\/p>\n

    2.) \u201cLet us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.\u201d \u2014 Marcel Proust<\/span><\/p>\n

    3.) \u201cHappiness is the consequence of personal effort. You must fight for it, strive for it, and insist upon it.\u201d\u2014 Elizabeth Gilbert<\/span><\/p>\n

    4.) \u201cInstructions for living a life. <\/span>Pay attention. <\/span>Be astonished. <\/span>Tell about it.\u201d <\/span>\u2015 Mary Oliver<\/span><\/p>\n

    5.) \u201c … It didn\u2019t take me long to learn that the discipline or practice of writing these essays occasioned a kind of delight radar. Or maybe it was more like the development of a delight muscle. Something that implies that the more you study delight, the more delight there is to study.\u201d \u2015 Ross Gay, <\/span>The Book of Delights<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    Own your happiness…<\/h2>\n

    Most of the tips I shared above involve social connection because happiness research has shown that connection, although occasionally awkward, makes people happy. You can cultivate high-quality connections through positive activities that involve kindness, reciprocity, and gratitude.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Remember, it is possible to choose happiness. It just takes a little bit of effort. It\u2019s also more fun when you involve other people in your happiness journey!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Additional Resources<\/b><\/p>\n

    \u00a0<\/span>If you want to dive deeper into the science of happiness, check out the resources below:<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u00a0<\/span>1.) Inspiring books:<\/span> The How of Happiness<\/span><\/i><\/a> by Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky,<\/span> Find Your Unicorn Space<\/span><\/i><\/a> by Eve Rodsky, and<\/span> The Book of Delights<\/span><\/i><\/a> by Ross Gay.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u00a0<\/span>2.) Helpful podcasts: \u201c<\/span>Happiness Takes Work<\/span><\/a>\u201d and \u201c<\/span>Where Happiness Hides<\/span><\/a>.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u00a0<\/span>3.) A fascinating article: \u201c<\/span>The Happiness Boomerang Effect: When Positive Activities Backfire<\/span><\/a>\u201d by Megan M. Fritz and Sonja Lyubomirsky.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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