{"id":3311,"date":"2021-02-23T11:39:00","date_gmt":"2021-02-23T18:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/?p=3311"},"modified":"2021-02-23T18:18:02","modified_gmt":"2021-02-24T01:18:02","slug":"no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/no\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Simple Ways to Help You Say No"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s hard to say no. It can feel uncomfortable. You might feel like you are letting people down. Even so, it&#8217;s one of the most important ways to create the time you want for what matters most.<\/p>\n<p>Not only do we need time to do the usual eleven million things but we deserve time to engage in the things that are on our heart lists, not just the things on our to-do lists. Things like &#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>taking a long walk<\/li>\n<li>doodling in a notebook<\/li>\n<li>calling someone who makes you laugh<\/li>\n<li>laying around with your feet up<\/li>\n<li>disconnecting from the internet for 3 days<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/rest-manifesto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">relaxing<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It takes time to take care of ourselves and when we don&#8217;t take that time, it&#8217;s hard to take care of anyone else at least not for very long. Continuing to serve everyone but ourselves will leave us completely depleted and there will be consequences.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120323\" src=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/SAY_NO.jpg\" alt=\"How to Say No\" width=\"600\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/SAY_NO.jpg 600w, https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/SAY_NO-150x300.jpg 150w, https:\/\/bemorewithless.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/SAY_NO-512x1024.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Saying no isn&#8217;t easy, especially for kind generous souls, for people pleasers, and for people who are used to saying yes to everything (so most of us).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Yes, I&#8217;ll meet that deadline.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I\u2019ll meet you for coffee<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I&#8217;ll make a wonderful family dinner.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, you can pick my brain.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I\u2019ll drive you to the airport.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I\u2019ll take that call.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I\u2019ll make that thing.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I&#8217;ll answer every email and text.<\/li>\n<li>Yes, I\u2019ll respond to every thing that annoys me on social media.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The list goes on (and on and on).<\/p>\n<h2>10 SIMPLE WAYS TO HELP YOU SAY NO<\/h2>\n<p><strong>1. Figure out what matters to you by asking questions.<\/strong><br \/>\nIt helps to ask the questions out loud. Put your hands on your heart when you ask:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cDoes this really matter to me?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cIs this love?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cIs this contributing to the life I want, to my health, or to the way I want to treat people?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cAm I holding on for the right reasons?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ask it about your stuff, about how you feel, about your work, about a grudge, about invitations, requests, everything. Put your hands on your heart and ask. Your heart knows things and she will help you make room for what matters most.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Keep it short.<\/strong><br \/>\nAuthor Anne Lamott says, &#8220;No is a complete sentence.&#8221; Expand when you need to, but still keep it short. In just a few sentences, you can say no with gratitude. &#8220;No thank you. I appreciate you thinking of me, but I have another commitment&#8221; is better than a long explanation about how busy and sorry you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Know you can be grateful and graceful while saying no.<\/strong><br \/>\nJonathan Fields suggests <em>practicing the loving no<\/em> in\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1401948413\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1401948413&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=notifoms-20&amp;linkId=dc79255585a9cea8c4154f373b386095\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How to Live a Good Life: Soulful Stories, Surprising Science, and Practical Wisdom<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" src=\"\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=notifoms-20&amp;l=am2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1401948413\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/>. Fields says to ask yourself, \u201cHow can I be kind and respectful yet also stand strong in what I need? What would that sound like?\u201d He suggests picturing yourself spending all the time you\u2019ve now freed up doing the thing that really matters to you before responding with your no.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Turn FOMO to JOMO. (Fear of Missing out to Joy of Missing out)<\/strong><br \/>\nInstead of feeling like you are missing out on something else, honor the commitments you make to yourself. When you decline an invitation, find joy in how you decide to spend your time instead of wondering what you missed out on.<\/p>\n<p>Feel joy that you have a choice, and joy because you are\u00a0protecting what matters most.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Be clear.<\/strong><br \/>\nSaying things like, &#8220;let me think about it&#8221; is often a delay tactic. When you know it&#8217;s a no, say no. If you want to say yes, but the timing is bad, suggest another time and be specific.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Say Hell Yeah.<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/sive.rs\/n\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Derek Sivers\u2019 approach<\/a>\u00a0to feeling like you are doing too much is this:\u00a0<em>\u201cThose of you who often over-commit or feel too scattered may appreciate a new philosophy I\u2019m trying:\u00a0If I\u2019m not saying \u201cHELL YEAH!\u201d about something, then say no.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Meaning: When deciding whether to commit to something, if I feel anything less than, \u201cWow! That would be amazing! Absolutely! Hell yeah!\u201d \u2013 then my answer is no.\u00a0<\/em><em>When you say no to most things, you leave room in your life to really throw yourself completely into that rare thing that makes you say \u201cHELL YEAH!\u201d\u00a0<\/em><em>We\u2019re all busy. We\u2019ve all taken on too much. Saying yes to less is the way out.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Do your work first.<\/strong><br \/>\nIf the first thing you do in the morning is check email, you may never have a chance to decide what&#8217;s most important to you. Put your oxygen mask on first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Try a yes fast.<\/strong><br \/>\nIf it\u2019s impossible for you to say no, or to know when to say no or when to say yes, try a yes fast. Make a commitment to say no to every request for 30 days. Practice the loving no over and over again. Share your challenge with others, not as a built-in excuse, but to inspire them to respect their time and what matters to them too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9. Dump the Guilt.<\/strong><br \/>\nOf course you will help someone in their time of need, so dump the guilt around not baking cookies, attending an event (even on Zoom), or picking someone up from the airport at midnight. Believe in yourself, and what you know is best for your life and say no to guilt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>10. Don&#8217;t say yes when your heart says no.<br \/>\n<\/strong>We&#8217;ve all said yes, when we wanted to say no. Whether we say it out of guilt, for fear of missing out, or out of habit, it&#8217;s important to note that saying yes, when your heart says no is a disservice not only to you, but to everyone you say yes to. If your heart says no, it will fight the yes all the way through. You won&#8217;t be excited to contribute. You won&#8217;t give your best, and you may end up resenting the commitment or the person who asked you to commit.<\/p>\n<p>I know there are exceptions to the never say yes when your heart says no rule. My heart doesn&#8217;t want to deal with the dentist or taxes but I still do.<\/p>\n<p>___________<\/p>\n<p>When all of your free time and space is dedicated to keeping up, catching up, regrouping and making ends meet, it&#8217;s not free time. 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